Archive for the ‘Unhappiness’ Category

Change self-image, negative habits

With Dahn Yoga, I have learned to change the way I think about myself and my situations. I am the author of my life but sometimes, the old, comfortable thoughts come back – she makes me so mad; he makes me feel bad about myself. Of course, only I can make myself feel anything.

Brain Wave Vibration is especially useful for changing these old habits. It’s so easy I can do it anywhere, anytime I need to. If I start to blame someone else for my feelings, I just take a minute, do a little brainwave vibration and let go of that bad information.

Tanya, Copley Square, Boston

I started to have hope

Throughout my college years, I never doubted that being a teacher was the perfect job for me. I was confident that I would be a great teacher when I went to work as a student teacher. When I finally graduated and went to the first school to work, I was full of pride, believing I was the perfect teacher. I thought that I had studied hard for the past four years, and I had all the necessary elements to be a good teacher.

But I was soon driven to despair when I met students in real life. I had so much to teach them, but the students were not paying attention to me. I was having a hard time getting up in the morning because of fatigue accumulated during the previous day. “I am having such a hard time. Why is this happening?” I asked myself. This thought later changed to: “I don’t think I am qualified to be a teacher. I should consider getting a different kind of job.”

During that time, one of the more experienced teachers recommended that I get training to teach Brain Education to children. When I was first introduced to Brain Wave Vibration, I thought, “What’s the point of just shaking the head?” In the beginning, I only focused on the head and neck during Brain Wave Vibration, but eventually the motion spread out through my entire body. Then the next day, I was able to wake up in the morning by myself without the alarm. Now I manage my mind and body through Brain Wave Vibration.

What I realized after the sixty hours of Brain Education training is that there was nothing at all wrong with the students. I was the problem. I was not a happy person, and I was looking around at the students and the world with that unhappy attitude.

I became much happier after the training, and I wanted to share that happiness with others. My students looked so loving when I met them again, and I could communicate well with my students for the rest of the semester. Then I finally started to have hope that I might one day be able to become a truly good teacher to my students.

One day, a student came to me and said, “I used to think that I couldn’t do anything before I met you. But now, I think I can do anything. Thank you so much, teacher!”

As I heard this, I cried out loud. I was so happy and so grateful.

- Ji-hyeon S., 26, Elementary school teacher

Calmly watch emotions

I suffered from depression and mood swings on a regular basis. I was carrying all the worries of the world upon my shoulders. Now, I can calmly watch the wave of such emotions coming and control myself during such an episode.

- Bok-hwa K., 27, Researcher

Negative feelings disappered

I am a cop. My workplace is the police station, where all sorts of conflicts between people happen. The environment is always discordant. When I get tired, my facial expression becomes just like my workplace. And then I feel even worse when I spit out words of frustration with a stern face.

The most stressful moments at my work are when I am misunderstood by people while I am trying to calm them down and make peace. Sometimes they insult me without any reason, which I take personally. Most of the time, I just let it go. But there are moments when I cannot take it any more. On days like that, I cannot rest well, even after I get off work. All the negativity and the hostile words linger in my head. I guess it is an occupational hazard.

I thought I would become seriously ill if I kept going on like that. Even before I learned Brain Wave Vibration, I started shaking my head left and right after I interrogated people. I think my neck and shoulders were trying to revive themselves of all that stress and stiffness. One day, a friend of mine introduced me to Brain Wave Vibration at a Dahn Yoga Center, and I could easily follow all the motions, as they were similar to the ones I used to do.

I didn’t notice a big difference at the beginning of the exercise, but I started feeling my head becoming clearer after about twenty minutes. As I rode on the rhythm of my body, all those negative feelings that were giving me a hard time completely disappeared. After I experienced this, whenever I felt unpleasant I started shaking the negativity off immediately by doing Brain Wave Vibration. I decided to delete my negative feelings right away.

In the beginning, it was not easy to do. But after I practiced several times, I could easily control my feelings by shaking my neck and body, even if just a little bit. Recently, I began to actively imagine what I wanted myself to be during Brain Wave Vibration. I visualize all the negativity and hostility from people being eliminated, which helps my body become even more refreshed and energized.

I still may feel upset at an accident scene, but I immediately practice Brain Wave Vibration on the way back in the patrol car. My method is to rub my hands together and stroke my head with my hands, and then delete those unpleasant feelings by shaking my head. When my fellow cops have a hard time thinking of difficult memories, I shout at them and laugh, “Delete it!”

- Jin-hwan Kim, 45, Police officer